What do you decide to put in your bank account?

寒月

A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
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nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.

As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
. N! x3 k+ k+ |4 Ydescription of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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: u; F- J  L/ z2 ^"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
just been presented with a new puppy.

"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."

"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."

, b& q4 ~/ ~, s) L# T9 [  `& [; OIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.

: S# B4 @# }' T" ^9 l5 [I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
" R) m+ C4 {% Y- r3 [have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
& G' r  R1 j4 A6 A4 q% F# mand be thankful for the ones that do.
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, s  H! a" R) W  f6 u6 S' P, bEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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0 ?; s, _+ F. _+ ~) aJust for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.

So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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    1. Free your heart from hatred.
* h2 d9 }1 b4 k1 X5 e6 M    2. Free your mind from worries.
( [' U* u4 G. N( D    3. Live simply.
    4. Give more.
    5. Expect less.

多伦多来客

恩。看样子年轻时候要多玩多享受。不然老了没什么好取的了。

芳子吾吾

so touching! I will just follow the five simple rules to be happy!

cool008

     I would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
& S/ i. {9 N9 E1 d5 Gaccount of memories!  no hatred; no worries;  Live simply; Give more; Expect less!!
I'm very happy each day!

Lazycat

That's the reason why he's still alive at 92-years-old.

北极熊

原帖由 寒月 于 2006-11-13 16:50 发表
. {* x& \  u, E. ^3 t( U1 g: ^, g5 BA 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
5 |- o6 m5 C3 y' Oeach morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally  ...
    1. Free your heart from hatred.
& h3 N3 L* ~* f    2. Free your mind from worries.
    3. Live simply.
    4. Give more.
    5. Expect less.

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# n7 \: `9 s, S7 w0 q2 x这是人生真谛。精辟！